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Monday, July 6, 2015

HOT Buttery, Butt-Naked, Yummy, Delicious Man Flesh Cinematic Fantasy FUN 2 be had @ Magic Mike XXL

I'm just going to dive right in on this one.  I don't believe in OBJECTIFYING men; however, Tatum Channing is...is...is White Chocolate!  There! I said it. Fee's FIVE Top Reasons to go and see Magic Mike XXL:

.  You've been celibate for a while and you're straddling the fence
.  You're newly single
.  You've been married for a while and things are starting to get stale
.  You LOVE seeing nearly naked men getting their ultimate groove on while wearing a G-String.

There! That's all I have for you!! LOL

I had absolutely NO intention on ever going to see Magic Mike XXL. I was at the Third Street Promenade on  4th of July and wanted to kill sometime.  I  ended up at the ticket counter purchasing a ticket for ONE.

As I stood in line, a guy comes up and stands next to me and says, "I'll probably be the only man going to see this movie"  That's when I knew, I was in for a ride. And what a ride it was.

Now, I'll be honest. I found the first 20-30 minutes of the movie to drag a little bit. It wasn't grounded in much reality for me. There were scenes in the film that were not very believable. Additionally, without giving much of the story line away, the stakes for Tatum, a.k.a., Magic Mike's character, were not high enough.  I found myself re-writing the scene where he decides to join his old buddies for one last romp as a male exotic dancer.  Missing the good ole bump-N-Grind days of stripping to Genuine's "Pony" was NOT a strong enough choice for me to believe that's why he went back on the road. After all, his character had a somewhat stable career and was on the fast track to success. And he got to keep his clothes on doing it. However, Tatum has moves that are  Big Screen worthy. Actually, Tatum has moves that can be done right here in my loft. LOL  The man can dance. He dances in a way that can't be taught. His dance moves can unrealistically set the bar too high for the average man. Once I got over that weak story like and decided not to ask for my money back, the movie got good.

As soon as Jada Pinkett-Smith's character was introduced; it was on. As soon as they took us into the debauchery full of:
.  FINE
.  FIT
.  FIRM
.  GLISTENING
.  SWEATY, HOT and tantalizing Mounds of chocolate testosterone of varying shades, builds and heights; The roller coaster ride of thunderous emotions was on display for everyone in that movie theatre to experience.

I found myself clapping, cat calling, whistling and calling out "WhooHoo"  I could not believe how vocal I was.  I have NEVER, EVER, EVER been that vocal in a movie theater. I was singing the song, "All I do is WIN". I was cheering and ogling the characters. I was having a good ole time all by MYSELF.

Every actor, from Tatum Channing, Michael Straham, CSI's Adam Rodrigues, Amy Smart, Jada Pinkett-Smith, Joe Manganiello to Andi McDowell, brought something undeniably scrumptious to their character. I loved how these people didn't take themselves too seriously. You can tell they had a good time filming this movie. Andi McDowell will surprise you. There is something for EVERY woman and gay man in this film

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Friday, July 3, 2015

What happens when U STOP being tied to other's opinions of You!!

Yesterday, I said I will speak and greet every person I come into contact with today with a Smile and a hello, good morning or good afternoon.  I know what you're thinking, "That's easy for you Fee, "you're always friendly and happy"!  NOT! I work at it people. I make a conscious decision to do my absolute best EVERYDAY. We are bombarded with too a borage of:
.  Choices
.  Options
.  Stimuli
.  Colorful Characters
.  Loud Noises, etc, etc, etc

I live in a community, called the Beach community; which I absolutely love. However, I am bombarded with people, who in my opinion, have  "The Sense of Entitlement Sydrome"  We ALL know what they look like, how they behave, what they drive and even what their voices sound like. Well, except for those who are displaying these annoying attributes. I'll stop there.

I also live in a community of the land of the homeless, disenfranchised and often times mentally ill. I love all of it; as it allows me the opportunity to rise to the challenge of being:

.  Kind
.  Forgiving
.  Compassionate
.  Real
.  Authentic
  .    Loving     - Or NOT!
.  True to myself

I'm nearly hit by a car or either feel the rush of a driver to get out of their way, either while I'm crossing the street, in a cross walk or when riding  my bike. So, at times, my guard is up and I'm a little tense and feeling aggressive. I digress. lol

I enter my new favorite; yet unfavorite coffee shop on Rose called "The Groundworks". I LOVE the coffee, but am not in love with the atmosphere. The staff isn't overly friendly or really friendly and warm at all. It's not like my Urth Cafe. I had a moment of reflection and decided to see if it was me. Am I the one creating this sort of tension and distance between myself, the staff and the other customers when I walk in. I will take 30% of the responsibility, but not all of it. So, yesterday, with my NEW intentions set forth, I decided no matter what and no matter WHO; I am going to smile, greet people I come into contact with; while checking  my energy and attitude at the door. It sort of worked. While waiting for my coffee barista to brew my small almond latte, extra hot with a little room, the woman standing next to me sizes me up. She looked me up and down from head to toe beginning at my paint speckled adiddas animal print running shoes to my not so eloquently wrapped head wrap. And, she did it unapologetically. Before I could react with some sistah-girl sass and attitude, she smiled and quipped, "I Love it. "I love your whole look"  That is working from the scarf, to the polka dot blue dress over the jeans with deliberate holes and the SHOES...I LOVE those tennis shoes." 

 I burst out laughing. I couldn't help but tell her that if my sister were here, she would tell both of us that I looked a Hot mess and to go home and start over.  Nothing was matching and I didn't care.  (Photo insert) I was comfortable and on my way to do the FINAL cleaning and exit from the OLD apt in Santa Monica to the NEW apt, career and lifestyle I am creating in Venice. And it's true - I don't give a damn what people think about what I'm wearing, how I'm wearing it and why I'm wearing. My WHY is so crystal clear; that the only person who's opinion of me that matters is Mine.  Living in a Beach community, people tend to be extremely casual. That's why I love it over here. Now, I know how to put it together when I need and want to; however, most of the time there is no need and I don't want to.

With that being said, when we decide to just be US; then the opinions of others matters less and less.  When we realize the energy we are receiving from others might be due to our own stuff and our projecting of our own stuff on to others; we then empower ourselves to do something about it... or NOT. I personally like, when people are happy AND grateful that I am patronizing their business. So, I will continue to buy my coffee from Groundworks coffee; while I expect my Positive, Bubbly and Effervescent Energy to rub off on them. lol     If it takes longer than I like; they will come to realize that they are not the only show in town.

Define and Focus on Your WHY today and EVERYDAY

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